Therapist in Stockholm. Couples therapy. Communication, infidelity, attachment, avoidant partner

Hi, I’m Rossana Pettersén, PhD

“I provide state-of-the-art psychotherapy through the lens of science, compassion and multicultural understanding”

With over 20+ years of experience, I’m a highly qualified Schema therapist, clinical psychologist and lecturer working in Stockholm. By integrating the latest scientific research into therapy sessions, I deliver a highly personalised treatment to help you understand yourself and others more deeply, build healthy relationships, cope with difficulties in healthy ways and live a life in flow.

Accredited and active member of the International Society of Schema Therapy and the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy

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Registered full member of the International Society of Schema Therapy #71778385

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I provide therapy in english or spanish:

individual therapy

  • Anxiety or panic attacks that feel hard to control

  • Depression, emotional numbness, or a loss of interest in activities that you used to enjoy

  • Burnout and exhaustion, especially common in fast-paced work environments

  • Low self-esteem, shame, impostor syndrome, or feeling “not good enough”

  • Grief after loss or separation

  • Trauma—recent or from childhood—that still lingers

  • Relationship difficulties and attachment wounds

  • A general sense of being stuck, disconnected, or lost

  • Mood swings

  • Difficulties setting boundaries

  • Self-sabotage

  • Victim of narcissistic/abusive parents, partners, bosses, etc.

  • Victim of emotional neglect

  • Life crises

  • Sensitivity to rejection and abandonment

  • And more…

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mediation for couples

  • Co-parenting after separation

  • Child custody

  • Decision to start fertility treatment

  • Decision to adopt a child

  • Decision to open the relationship

  • Revealing chronic disease

  • Communicating your will to change gender

  • Revealing “dark secrets” to your partner

  • Inheritance disputes

  • Decoupling after the decision to separate

  • Parenting differences

  • Expat life disagreements

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Couples therapy

  • Communication problems

  • Unhealthy patterns like constant arguments, stonewalling, blaming the other, constant criticism

  • Affairs, betrayal and infidelity

  • Loss of intimacy

  • Constant invalidation or having your emotional needs ignored by your partner

  • Disconnection “Losing the spark”

  • Strained relationships with in-laws

  • Transition to parenthood

  • Empty nest

  • Healthy decoupling, separation or divorce

  • Difficulties to de-escalate problems

  • Jealousy and trust issues

  • Feeling detached from each other

  • Perceived lack of empathy from your partner

  • Feelings of loneliness or rejection in the relationship

  • Imbalance in the emotional labour

  • Re-activation of old emotional wounds or attachment styles in your relationship

  • And more…

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body focused therapy

  • Body focused Schema Therapy, also called somatic work in schema therapy, is a powerful and compassionate individual therapy that combines the psychological depth of Schema Therapy with body-based techniques.

  • It is helpful when traditional therapy hasn’t quite reached the places where emotional pain still lingers.

  • Based on the Polyvagal approach (Porges 2017) and Somatic experiencing (Levine, 1997)

  • Recommended to clients who have experienced trauma, Complex PTSD, attachment wounds (being emotionally neglected as a child, feeling unsafe, unseen or unloved in early relationships)

  • Recommended to clients that notice that their bodies hold anxiety, shame, guilt, pain and other strong emotions

  • NOT recommended for clients who are in an acute crisis (risk of harm to self or others), experience severe dissociation, or that have limited body awareness.

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My fees

  • Free introductory session

    You are very welcome to book a free ONLINE introductory session (30 minutes) with me. In this session you will have space to describe what brings you to therapy and ask questions. I will explain my therapeutic approaches and give you some insights. This is a gentle starting point to make sure you feel comfortable, informed and supported.

  • Individual therapy

    1,350 SEK

    55 minutes. In-person or online

    A therapy session offers a calm and confidential space to reflect, understand, and explore your experiences, emotions, and patterns always at a pace that feels comfortable and respectful.

    The goal is to support greater self-awareness, emotional resilience, and lasting change. Every session is a step toward a deeper understanding of yourself and a more balanced, fulfilling life.

  • Couples therapy

    1,500 SEK

    60 minutes. In-person or online

    Using evidence-based approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and Schema Therapy, I help you understand recurring patterns, heal emotional distance, communication blocks, and rebuild trust and intimacy. Whether you want to resolve conflicts or deepen your bond, therapy provides a safe place to grow together — with empathy, understanding, and professional guidance.

  • Body focused schema therapy

    1,450 SEK

    60 minutes. In person

    Powerful and compassionate therapy that combines the psychological depth of Schema Therapy with gentle but powerful somatic techniques. It’s especially helpful when traditional talking therapy hasn’t quite reached the places where emotional pain still lingers. Recommended to clients who have experienced trauma, Complex PTSD, attachment wounds (being emotionally neglected as a child, feeling unsafe, unseen or unloved in early relationships) or who are holding a lot of anxiety, shame, guilt, anger in their bodies.

  • Mediation

    1,500 SEK (no transcripts) or 2,300 SEK (including transcripts sent to both parts)

    60 minutes. In-person

    My mediation service offers a respectful and well structured space to help couples and families navigate important life decisions with clarity and care. Whether you’re discussing adoption, child custody, separation, open relationship agreements, revealing gender transition plans, cultural or intergenerational conflicts and more, mediation provides a neutral and supportive process that fosters understanding, collaboration, and emotional safety. I help you reach balanced agreements that honour everyone’s needs and values.

You are most welcome to my practice

Artillerigatan 38 (T-Östermalmstorg) Stockholm or Online via Zoom

Psychologist in English in Stockholm
Psychologist fro expats in Sweden. Therapy for internationals

My path

Let me gently help you to unweave what no longer serves you, so you can live more freely, more fully, as your truest self
— Rossana Pettersén

I’ve always being fascinated by the inner strength of people. Resilience after disasters, personal growth after trauma, persistence after failure, forgiveness in victims of abuse and adaptability to changing circumstances, to name a few ways in which we humans are admirable.

This fascination led me to a life-long quest to learn everything I can about human psychology and psychotherapy. My own path includes more than 4 years of own therapy, silent retreats, volunteering in remote areas, 8 years of scientific research in academia, and a daily practice of mindfulness meditation which prevails today.

After my doctoral dissertation, I decided to work in Clinical practice and furthered my education to become a psychotherapist. In my work with individual clients, I chose to specialise in Schema therapy and for Couples, I specialised in Emotion Focused Therapy.

In every session, I bring together evidence-based treatments, deep empathy, and practical tools to help you heal from the past and create a more fulfilling future. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship issues, my approach is always rooted in compassion, collaboration, and the belief that real change is possible.

credentials

CBT therapy in English in Stockholm. Therapy online
  • BSc Psychology (Peru)

  • MSc Clinical psychology (Peru)

  • MSc Suicide Prevention at Karolinska Institute, Sweden

  • PhD in Medical Science - Psychology, at Karolinska Institute

  • Schema Therapy, Swedish Institute for CBT and Schema Therapy

  • Schema therapist certification, Dutch institute for Schema therapy

  • Emotionally focused therapy for couples certification, Stockholm EFT Center

  • Body-focused techniques and somatic interventions in psychotherapy. Part 1, Part 2 and part 3. ISST accredited certification at the Schema therapy School, London

    Publications

  • Co-author of the Oxford Textbook of Suicide Prevention. A global perspective. Oxford University press. 2009

  • Co-author of the book Postvention in action. Hogrefe. 2017

  • and 4 scientific articles

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